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Well, I feel a million times better now and have sorted myself out a bit.  One of the main problems I think was that most people go travelling when they have either split up with a partner, need a change or things just aren't going right.  I had no reason to leave Huddersfield other than boredom.  I loved my life.  I had a great job, house, social life, I was really happy and then  to take myself away from that and put myself into a situation where I didn't have all those things was just kinda crazy.

Anyway, so Tony has finnished working up in Sydney and has now come down to my gran's house, which was fine until my gran decided she really hated him (for no reason specifically) and threw him out...  I followed.

This was the first argument I have ever had with my Gran, and i am very dissapointed in her.  I have always looked up to my nan and tried to be like her, but now I realise how nasty she can be and I don't like it.  Me and Tony went to stay at the youth hostel in town, and I tried phoning her to sort thiings out.  She just started yelling to me over the phone and would not stop.  She kept saying how he wasn't any good for me and how I was runing my life just being with him (without any concrete evidence of course).  The yelling continued for a few days and I continued to get more and more upset.  My nan used to be the most understanding woman I had ever known.  You could talk to her about anything and she would never judge you.  Now old age has turned her into a very very bitter person, and I am not sure I like what she has turned into.

After a week of arguments we sorted it out.  I told my nan she had to accept Tony in my life if she wanted to see me.  I told her how she used to be a really nice person and now she was really bitter, so she is trying to improve....

Well, me and Tony are fed up with Australia, we have had enough.  We want to leave but the only problem is that Mya is coming over in April.  She is going to try and change her flight so we can meet in Asia instead, we'll have to wait and see what happens...